Respect.
Islanders
value that more than what you can pay them.
But
let's be realistic. They need to earn an
income, too.
In
the Caribbean, with all the mixed blood, the chance of meeting
someone who's hostile because of your skin color isn't as
likely as you might think.
If
you encounter a problem, it's usually based on something
else: Poverty, which breeds envy.
After
watching planeloads and boatloads of tourists walk around
for many years, it's not surprising there are islanders who feel resentful.
Who wouldn't?
The
unemployment rate on some islands is as high as 25 percent.
There are no jobs, except perhaps seasonal sugar cane cutting
and banana picking. So instead of doing nothing, and mooching off relatives,
some people go into business for themselves.
They want to sell
items to the only people who have money. You, a tourist.
You may consider it
panhandling. For islanders, this may be their only way
of making a living.
They're the telephone
solicitors you can't always avoid. Except you see them face-to-face.
On
vacation, you have clothes, spending money and a lavish resort lifestyle
most islanders can only dream of.
So
it's understandable a few have taken to panhandling, begging for their share,
though in the West Indian culture such conduct is considered bad manners.
Some
islanders will try to sell you carvings or shells, things
you might have no need for. It's the best they can offer based on their circumstances.
And
if you refuse, they may resent it. You are their only
source of livelihood.
If
the situation was reversed, how would you react?
So,
instead of another T-shirt, why not buy a shell or a necklace? If this sounds
like economic do-gooding, I guess it is.
But
buying from one also is a way of avoiding other peddlers.
Show the next salesperson what you've already bought and they'll often leave
you alone. Especially if you know the seller's name.
As
much as the next one would like to sell to you, they know you've already
helped a brother.
You've
shown respect. And they should return it to you.
If
you're dealing with the flotsam and jetsam of the beaches, a drugged-out
Rastafarian, all bets are off.
Why
some islands let a hostile Rastafarian take over a beach and pester
and irritate tourists--and drive them away--is one of life's great
mysteries. These obnoxious drug heads violate their
own religious beliefs.
But
they expect the dreadlocks to impress. A few even wear
wigs. They know the dreads will attract female tourists, who discover
the phoniness too late.
Maybe
tourism officials should get out of their air-conditioned offices more and
see what's going on.
In
the Caribbean, helping one another is what island life is
all about. Unemployment may be high, but usually no one starves or sleeps
in the streets. Family and friends take care of their own.
A
healthy tourist economy is one of the most important
bases an island can have. Some island governments are making their
people aware of this, that tourists in their mysterious and sometimes
irritating ways, are good for everyone's economic health.
On
the island of Bonaire in the Netherlands Antilles, the importance
of making visitors welcome became a part of the school
curriculum.
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